whiplr
Free on iOS and Android, Whiplr helps you find people who share your kinks and fetishes, completely anonymously. To get started, you select what kind of stuff you’re into and what you want your potential partner to like. Importantly, all the photos, videos, or messages you share via the app can be deleted on both your version of the app, and from the phone of the person you’re chatting with too (as long as they didn’t move fast to get a screenshot.) It’s free to get started, and there’s the option to pay a monthly subscription if you really love the service.
